Keep it handy
Who's got this one?
Pick a few jobs that keep coming round. Decide who will keep track of each one, and what to do when that person needs a hand.
Make it your own
This is a planning sheet to adapt, rather than a scorecard. Use it with a partner, relative or trusted helper. Start with the jobs causing the most friction. You can add others later.
Our plan for this week
Week of:
| Job, including planning and finishing | Who's taking it? | Backup or help needed |
|---|---|---|
| Meals and clearing up | ||
| Diapers and supplies | ||
| Laundry and putting it away | ||
| Appointments and follow-up | ||
| Childcare bag, drop-off or pickup | ||
| Our own job: |
Make the job clear
One job we'll talk through:
What needs doing, and by when:
Make room for a break
Who needs a break, and who can cover:
What we're letting wait this week:
We'll check in again on:
At the check-in: What helped? What felt too much? What can we change?
For a few words to start the conversation, try sharing the load.
A planning sheet to adapt to your family. Leave room for what works for you.